When the Megaphone Is Loud—but the Room Is Silent

Congratulations to Kelsey Grady on being recognized as a finalist for #PRWeek’s Outstanding CCO Award and as part of PR Daily’s Top Women in Communications Class of 2026. Industry recognition is no small achievement.

That said, this announcement highlights a growing contradiction that’s hard to ignore.

#Nextdoor celebrates telling stories about neighbors helping neighbors and communities coming together—yet public engagement is routinely shut down. Comments are disabled, questions are removed, and dialogue is avoided. A communications team can amplify a message, but if the audience isn’t allowed to respond, is that communication—or just broadcasting?

Analogy:

This feels like awarding a lifeguard for excellence while the pool is closed and swimmers are locked outside, asking why they can’t get in. The whistle is polished. The chair is high. But no one is allowed in the water.

I’m trying to reconcile how congratulations are being handed out to Nirav Tolia while three obvious realities exist:

1️⃣ Comments are being turned off on LinkedIn, removing the ability for the public to engage with #Nextdoor’s messaging.

2️⃣ Critics and shareholders are being blocked, rather than engaged, when they ask reasonable questions.

3️⃣ Hard conversations are avoided, while awards celebrate “telling the stories that matter.”

A community connection can't credibly be championed while simultaneously shutting down dialogue. Transparency can't be promoted while silencing feedback. Trust isn't built by controlling the narrative instead of participating in it.

Recognition should reflect reality — not just messaging. Leadership isn’t about applause. It’s about accountability when the room gets uncomfortable.

Awards for storytelling ring hollow when the very people the story is about—neighbors, users, communities—are prevented from participating in the conversation. Excellent communication isn’t just about shaping the narrative; it’s about engaging with reality, especially when it’s uncomfortable.

If #Nextdoor’s mission is truly about connection, then credibility comes not from accolades, but from openness, accountability, and two-way dialogue.

Until then, recognition like this raises a fair question: for whom is the story really being told?

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