Commitment Level: Obsessed

When I saw this post from a first-level colleague earlier today, it hit like a freight train—because it’s true.

Most people want “exceptional” results with “casual” commitment. But nothing meaningful in my life has ever come from casual effort. Losing my leg. Navigating ESRD. Rebuilding, pivoting, creating. Every step took an uncomfortable level of commitment—sometimes obsession.

And this image captured it perfectly:
“I don’t know a single successful person who isn’t dangerously obsessed.”

I understand it.
I’m learning from it.
And I’m leaning into it.

Because I won’t stop my pursuit—not now, not with the clarity I have today, not with the momentum I’ve built.

And yes… that includes my continued focus on Nextdoor (NXDR).

I now understand something I didn’t before:
#Nextdoor didn’t take me seriously because I had no skin in the game—not a user, not an advertiser, not an employee. So I changed that. I bought shares. I’ll be buying more. And I’ll be asking other shareholders who believe in accountability, transparency, and actual community to follow the vision I see clearly.

Companies change when enough voices refuse to go silent. They change when people are willing to be obsessed with what’s right—uncomfortable, persistent, and unwilling to look away.

I’m not letting #Nextdoor out of my sight. Not today. Not tomorrow. Not until the mission they advertise matches the reality that users, neighbors, and shareholders deserve.

Because if I want to be exceptional, I can’t wait for someone else to do the extraordinary thing.

I am doing it myself.

My Honest Take on Ed Sheeran — And Why I Had to Vlog It

I just dropped a new vlog sharing my personal take on Ed Sheeran, and let’s just say… I have a strong opinion. Whether you think he’s a lyrical genius, a loop-pedal wizard, or the human embodiment of a caramel latte, I’m starting the conversation.

In my vlog, I break down what I love, and what leaves me scratching my bald head.

If you want the full unfiltered version, head to Videos, then Music on NielFlamm.com to watch the latest drop. Agree, disagree, or completely shocked — I’m ready for it.

Come join the conversation. 🎤🔥

I Had a Super Weird Dream… Let’s Talk About It

Last night I had one of the strangest dreams I’ve had in a long time — the kind that makes you wake up wondering, “What on earth was that?” Instead of keeping it to myself, I broke it down in a new video, now live under Videos → Other on NielFlamm.com.

If you enjoy bizarre dreams, random brain adventures, or want a good laugh at whatever my subconscious was trying to tell me, head over and give it a watch.

Check it out, drop your thoughts, and tell me if you’ve ever had something this weird happen in your sleep!

I Finally Understand Why #Nextdoor Wasn’t Paying Attention to Me… Until Now.

For the longest time, I kept wondering why Nextdoor brushed off every question, removed every comment, dodged every attempt at conversation, and fortified their walls higher each week.

Now I get it.

In their eyes, I had no skin in the game.

I wasn’t an advertiser.

I wasn’t an employee.

And after being suspended, I wasn’t even a user.

But that changed today.

I bought 40 shares of $NXDR at $1.76 per share — a stock sitting on the edge of penny-stock territory, down 23% over the year, with ~390 million shares outstanding.

Now I am a stakeholder.

Now I do have skin in the game.

Now I have a vested interest in ensuring #Nextdoor becomes what it claims to be — a platform worthy of advertisers, users, and investors.

And this part is for you, Nirav Tolia:

👉 I’m now financially invested in the company you lead.

I’m asking for transparency, accountability, and alignment with the mission you publicly champion.

I’m here because I believe #Nextdoor can be better — but only if leadership chooses the hard path, not the convenient one.

You said you returned to #Nextdoor to turn it around.

I’m holding 40 shares (more in the very near future), counting on you to actually do it.

My door — and my LinkedIn inbox — is open.

Let’s talk like neighbors and shareholders should.

#NXDR #Nextdoor #Investing #Leadership #Accountability #Transparency #MissionDriven #ShareholderVoice #skininthegame

Thankful in 2025: A Quick Video Reflection

I just posted a new video sharing what I’m thankful for so far in 2025.

It’s been a year of challenges, growth, and unexpected moments that reminded me how strong the human spirit can be—especially when life throws curveballs like amputation, kidney failure, travel chaos, or the day-to-day grind of just trying to move forward.

In the video, I talk about the people, places, small victories, and big lessons that have carried me into this new year. Gratitude hits differently when you’ve lived through the tough stuff, and 2025 has already given me more than a few reasons to pause and appreciate what I do have.

Check it out on NielFlamm.com → Videos, and share what you’re thankful for too.

Let’s keep lifting each other up.