Season 1 Episode 6: Mortality, Recovery, Gratitude & the Human Experience
In Season 1, Episode 6 of Down a Hole with Fish and Niel, the conversation goes far deeper than surface-level podcast talk.
This episode explores mortality, health struggles, recovery, spirituality, emotional regulation, anger, gratitude, and what it means to navigate life while facing physical and emotional challenges. From discussions about vision loss and tinnitus to recovery journeys and workplace behavior, Fish and Niel open up about experiences many people quietly carry every day.
There’s humor.
There’s vulnerability.
And there are moments that may stay with you long after the episode ends.
🎧 Watch and listen now at: NielFlamm.com Podcast
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Passenger: The Road Knows You’re There
Late at night.
A dark back road.
A strange figure standing where nobody should be.
I watched Passenger this week, expecting one kind of horror movie… and got something very different.
There’s highway folklore, a demonic preacher, unsettling road-trip energy, and moments that feel inspired by Jeepers Creepers, Candyman, and Poltergeist. But did the movie actually deliver the scares I was hoping for?
And why does this movie even have an R rating?
I break it all down in my latest review — including the scenes that worked, the ones that didn’t, and why the theater experience may completely change how you feel about it.
🎬 Watch the full review now at NielFlamm.com under Videos → Movie Reviews
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Memorial Day Weekend Driving & Mixed Signals
Today’s episode of “What Are We Doing Out Here?” comes courtesy of South Carolina plate 395 BTJ driving a Mercedes-Benz GLE 350 somewhere in the Low Country.
First things first… please wash the car.
The grime buildup behind the rear windshield looked like it had been collecting historical artifacts. It hasn’t rained in the Low Country for over a week, so Mother Nature can’t take the blame on this one.
Now onto the real reason for this post.
I was traveling southeast on South Carolina Highway 17, trying to get home, dealing with the usual Memorial Day weekend traffic. You were pulling out of the 7-11/Panera strip mall area and decided to pull in directly in front of me with very little room to spare. At that moment, I mentally prepared for either a collision or a water landing.
Normally, this would have been the perfect time for a horn honk. Unfortunately, my horn isn’t working — which is an entirely separate road rage story for another day.
As I carefully pulled into the turn lane for South Carolina Highway 41, I noticed something interesting on your vehicle.
You had a sticker for StageDoor Arts Academy on the rear hatch, along with a cross and other spiritual symbols displayed on the passenger-side rear glass.
Now look… I’m no driving monk or traffic saint myself, but aggressively darting into traffic on a packed holiday weekend doesn’t exactly scream “arts, spirituality, patience, and Low Country hospitality.”
The Low Country already has enough traffic chaos without adding surprise stunt driving into the mix.
Be safe out there, folks. Defensive driving saves lives — and possibly prevents random bloggers from writing about your questionable merge decisions.
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A “Connection” Company That Stops Communicating
Today, May 22, 2026, I checked multiple public-facing Nextdoor communication channels, including the company blog, LinkedIn, X, and others.
Nothing.
For a company built around “connecting neighbors” and real human engagement, the silence is becoming part of the brand.
Based on publicly available staffing patterns, salary estimates, agency support, investor relations overhead, conferences, and executive communications, Nextdoor’s communications-related operations could reasonably cost between $3M and $5M annually.
That roughly translates to:
~$11,000–$19,000 per business day
Or potentially over $1M annually tied to the apparent Monday/Friday low-activity cadence many observers have noticed
And now, here we are, heading into Memorial Day weekend — when it feels like the entire company may have already packed it in for an extra-long holiday break.
Meanwhile:
There was a large sales conference
A new office expansion in the Dallas, Texas area
Continued branding and growth spending
Yet the stock still trades far closer to penny-stock territory than the home run many investors once believed possible.
Communication matters.
Consistency matters.
Leadership visibility matters.
And when the public face of a “community platform” appears absent multiple days a week, people notice.
Way to manage, Nirav Tolia.
For those who want to discuss frustrations with the platform openly, there are now outside communities dedicated to it — including the Facebook group:
“I Hate Nextdoor”
Sometimes the loudest corporate message is silence.
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The Profile View That Said a Lot
Several months have passed since everything changed.
On May 20, 2026, my LinkedIn profile showed a visitor from a place I honestly never expected to see again: Nextdoor.
For a long time, it felt like the door had been shut completely — that leadership wanted to silence my ability to view, question, comment on, or challenge what I believed were inconsistent platform practices and messaging.
But curiosity has a funny way of slipping through corporate walls.
Even #NiravTolia couldn’t stop Lawrence Muller, a Staff Software Engineer at Nextdoor, from taking a look through a different lens and seeing another side of the conversation.
That profile view reminded me of something important:
People inside companies are still people. Some are curious. Some ask questions. Some quietly look beyond the talking points.
Sometimes all it takes is one person willing to peek behind the curtain for the genie to come out of the lantern.
Lawrence — after your non-compete clause ends, let’s build something better:
A neighbor platform focused on transparency, inclusion, accountability, actual community engagement, and profitability without silencing people for having opinions.
Because neighbors deserve better than fear-based moderation and controlled narratives.
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