Thank You for Reading My Internet Garbage
There are moments when I stop and look at the analytics for NielFlamm.com, and I honestly have to laugh a little. When I started this little hobby, I figured the only people visiting would be a handful of friends, family members, and maybe someone who clicked the wrong link.
Instead, something unexpected has happened.
I've started seeing steady movement in the site's traffic, especially through the RSS feed, and visitors are coming from places I never imagined. A huge percentage of readers and viewers are coming from Asia, with China and Vietnam leading the way. The United States continues to be a strong audience, and across Europe, Germany has become the largest source of visitors.
I have no idea what resonates with everyone. Maybe it's the movie reviews, the health journey, the recovery stories, the Nextdoor commentary, the random observations about life, or just the collection of what I affectionately call Internet Garbage.
Whatever the reason, I'm incredibly grateful.
Over the last 30 days, the site has received more than 800 unique visitors, over 1,000 page views, and more than 800 visits overall. I'm still learning what all these analytics mean, but every number represents a real person who took time out of their day to stop by my little corner of the internet.
That's pretty amazing to me.
If you've read a post, watched a video, or listened to a podcast episode, thank you. Your support means more than you probably realize.
I'd also love to hear from you. Tell me what you enjoy, what you'd like to see more of, or what I could do better. This website is a hobby, but like any hobby, I want to keep improving and evolving.
And if you enjoy the content, please share it with someone else. Don't gatekeep the Internet Garbage—spread it around!
Thanks again for stopping by, and I look forward to bringing you even more Internet Garbage in the weeks and months ahead.
See you on the website!
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Is Love Forever? My Thoughts on Eternity
Some movies make you laugh. Some make you cry. And some leave you staring at the credits wondering if you made the right choices in life.
Eternity falls into that last category.
The film explores love, loss, regret, sacrifice, and the endless "what ifs" that follow us through life—and maybe beyond. I watched it so you don't have to... unless, of course, you should.
Want to hear my full thoughts, along with whether I think it's worth your time?
Head over to https://NielFlamm.com/videos/moviereviews to watch the complete review. While you're there, check out my other movie reviews and the rest of my internet garbage. There's plenty of it.
See you over there.
Nextdoor's Biggest Opportunity Isn't AI—It's Trust
I didn't start writing about Nirav Tolia until he blocked me on LinkedIn.
My "offense" was providing feedback about Nextdoor's moderation model and user experience. Instead of engaging with criticism that could improve the platform, he removed the feedback from his view.
I recently listened to Nirav's June 3, 2026 appearance on the New Economies podcast with Ollie Forsyth:
https://www.neweconomies.co/p/nirav-tolia
Throughout the conversation, Nirav discusses AI, local commerce, and what matters to neighbors today. To me, much of it sounds like lip service because the most pressing issue facing Nextdoor isn't AI—it's trust.
What really matters to people today is a consistent moderation program with transparency from the moment a post is submitted through the final moderation decision and the metrics behind those decisions.
Nextdoor's model is built around real names and verified addresses. That's a tremendous amount of trust that users place in the company. Yet I have repeatedly asked a simple question:
What vetting is performed to ensure a volunteer neighbor moderator cannot retaliate against another neighbor?
I've asked several times and haven't received a meaningful response.
During the podcast, Nirav also discusses the value of the information that Nextdoor possesses. That data is clearly a valuable corporate asset and part of the company's monetization strategy.
But if users are expected to trust the platform with their identities, addresses, neighborhoods, and conversations, then transparency around moderation should be every bit as important as monetizing that data.
The future of Nextdoor won't be determined by AI features alone. It will be determined by whether neighbors believe the platform is fair, consistent, and accountable.
Leadership Can't Fix What It Doesn't Experience
I don't believe Nextdoor CEO Nirav Tolia is an active, everyday user of the platform in the same way millions of neighbors experience it.
If he were regularly navigating neighborhood conversations, moderator actions, appeals, and the frustrations many users describe, I suspect the moderation model would look very different today.
Living in an affluent community like Cary Estates, where homes routinely sell in the $10–13 million range, creates a very different environment from that of many neighborhoods across America. Public records show a home purchased through a trust in 2020 that was listed around $12.5 million. That level of insulation can make it difficult to understand the pulse of the average user.
It reminds me of McDonald's CEO Chris Kempczinski promoting the Big Arch burger. The marketing videos felt staged, and his reaction while eating it came across as less than enthusiastic. Consumers can usually tell when an executive is sampling a product for the cameras versus regularly enjoying it like a customer.
The same principle applies to social media platforms.
My suggestion? Put Nirav Tolia on an episode of Undercover Boss. Have him spend a week shadowing volunteer moderators in neighborhoods that aren't insulated by wealth or status. Let him watch reports come in, observe moderation decisions, see appeals, and experience the frustration that many users describe.
Earlier in my career, I worked for an automotive finance company owned by an automobile manufacturer. One of the employee benefits was an incredible lease program with no out-of-pocket costs, insurance included, and discounted payroll-deducted lease payments.
Why? Because the company wanted employees to drive the product they represented. We became ambassadors. Whether you worked in collections, training, or customer service, you experienced the vehicle firsthand and could speak to it authentically.
That philosophy created better employees and better advocates.
Does every employee at Nextdoor actively use the platform? Do executives, engineers, legal staff, and product managers spend time participating in neighborhood conversations and seeing what moderators and users experience every day?
The best leaders don't manage from a boardroom—they manage from experience. Until leadership truly experiences the platform the way everyday users do, the moderation model risks remaining disconnected from reality.
Celebrity Row or Carpetbaggers? Riding the Coattails of Lifelong New York Fans
What makes someone a real New Yorker?
Is it the ZIP code on your driver's license? The number of years you've lived in the city? Or is it something much deeper?
From Celebrity Row at Madison Square Garden to celebrity superfans suddenly embracing New York teams, I dive into one of my most unpopular opinions yet. I talk about lifelong allegiances, sports culture, and whether some famous faces are simply riding the coattails of generations of diehard New York fans.
Expect sarcasm, nostalgia, and a few laughs along the way.
Think I'm wrong? You're probably not alone.
Watch the full video and decide for yourself: