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A Correction—and an Apology to Sarah Leary

I've spent more than 70 days publicly questioning Nextdoor, its leadership, and what I see as failures in communication and accountability.


So accountability has to work both ways.


Sarah Leary, I owe you an apology.


On August 14, 2026, I publicly questioned what happened to an X post on Sarah's account after I could no longer find it.


I noticed it was missing the day before.


It was the Beacon Street snow post where I had left numerous comments documenting my ongoing experience with Nextdoor—the company Sarah co-founded with Nirav Tolia.


At the time, I couldn't find the post.


I questioned whether Sarah had deleted it and whether my numerous Nextdoor comments had anything to do with its disappearance.


Well...


As of August 24, 2026, the post is there.

I can see it.


And yes, I've commented on it again on Nextdoor.


So what happened?


I don't know.


Maybe it was an X glitch.


Maybe its visibility temporarily changed.


Maybe it disappeared and returned.


Or maybe I didn't see it when I searched for it.


And that's the important part:


I don't know.


I’ve raised concerns about Nextdoor's communication, transparency, and accountability.


I can't demand those standards from a company and then exempt myself when I may have made a mistake.


My observation at the time was straightforward:


I couldn't find the post.


But suggesting Sarah personally removed it went beyond what I could actually establish.


There's a difference between:


“The post appears to be gone.”


and


“Sarah deleted the post.”


I should have maintained that distinction.


So, Sarah:


I apologize for stating or implying that you deleted the post when I didn't have evidence to support that.


That's on me.


This correction doesn't change my broader questions about Nextdoor. I'm still waiting for the detailed research I've requested. I still have questions about communication, moderation, verification, monetization, and leadership.


And I'll continue documenting those issues.


But this particular issue deserves a correction without a bunch of qualifications attached to the apology:


The Beacon Street post is there.


I don't know why I couldn't see it before.


I shouldn't have attributed its disappearance to Sarah without knowing what happened.


Accountability doesn't mean much if it only travels in the convenient direction.


If I expect Nextdoor and its executives to acknowledge mistakes, I have to be willing to do the same.


So, Sarah, sincerely:


My apologies.


And yes...I've already returned to the Beacon Street post to continue commenting about that company you and Nirav co-founded.


I said I was apologizing.


I didn't say I was retiring. 😏


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