Should Social Media Companies Welcome Feedback About Their Own Platforms?
I asked ChatGPT to give me a rundown of whether other major social media companies block comments on their LinkedIn posts.
The answer was interesting.
Companies such as Meta, LinkedIn, Reddit, Inc., @TikTok, @Snap, and @X all have the ability to disable comments on individual LinkedIn posts. But, generally speaking, they appear to allow public discussion on many of their posts rather than shutting it down by default.
That made me think about Nextdoor.
If your business is built around connecting neighbors, fostering community, and encouraging conversation, shouldn’t your own corporate communications reflect those same values?
As a shareholder, I’ve spent the last month asking questions about moderation consistency, executive accountability, transparency, and a published study that I requested more than a month ago.
I don’t expect everyone to agree with me.
I do expect companies to welcome respectful questions.
Leadership isn’t demonstrated only through podcasts, interviews, or polished announcements.
It’s demonstrated by engaging with feedback—even when it’s uncomfortable.
Every company should remove spam, threats, and abusive content.
But respectful questions are part of accountability.
If a company’s product is built on conversation, its communications should be willing to have one.
Do you think social media companies should encourage open discussion on their own LinkedIn posts, even when the feedback is critical?
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Day 31: The Count Continues — Communication Is a Leadership Decision
Today marks Day 31 since I sent an email requesting the study and methodology referenced by the Nextdoor Communications team.
The email was sent to:
Jacob Chavis, Senior Manager of Customer Insights
Nirav Tolia, CEO
Investor Relations
Press Communications
I also requested a read receipt.
No read receipt.
No response.
No study.
No update.
There are several possible explanations:
Maybe the company doesn't use Microsoft Outlook.
Maybe everyone was out of the office.
Maybe the email was overlooked.
Or perhaps the organization uses a preview function and removes emails without triggering a read receipt.
I don't know.
What I do know is the outcome:
31 days without a response to a straightforward request for information.
And that leads to a bigger question:
If this is how communication is handled when a shareholder asks for a published research report, what happens when a user has a serious issue?
What happens when a paying advertiser needs support?
What happens when the company faces a real crisis?
Leadership is demonstrated during the easy moments and the difficult ones.
A simple response—yes, no, or an explanation—would have addressed this weeks ago.
Instead, the silence continues.
So the question becomes:
How high will this count go?
I will update immediately after receiving the study.
Until then, the clock continues.
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A LinkedIn Profile View That Made Me Think About Trust
One of the things I do while sitting in a dialysis chair, waiting for a doctor's appointment, or enjoying my usual Chipotle Mexican Grill Sofritas Burrito Bowl (extra white rice, no beans) is catch up on my LinkedIn notifications.
Today, one notification caught my attention.
I noticed that Tiffany Krenek, Co-Owner of My Neighborhood News, viewed my profile.
If you're not familiar with My Neighborhood News, it's a publication serving the Greater Houston area, with a mission to connect local residents and communities. One word that stood out to me while reading about the organization was "trusted."
Trust.
That's a powerful word.
It's also something I've been writing about extensively regarding Nextdoor.
Over the past month, I've documented what I believe are inconsistencies in moderation, unanswered questions about the unpaid moderator model and executive accountability, and my ongoing request for research methodology, which has now gone unanswered for weeks.
It's entirely possible that Tiffany viewed my profile because of one of my comments on LinkedIn.
So, Tiffany, if you happen to read this...
You have an opportunity that local journalism should embrace.
Ask the difficult questions.
Ask about the unpaid moderator model.
Ask how moderation decisions are reviewed for consistency.
Ask why published research requests can go unanswered for weeks.
Ask how executive compensation aligns with company performance.
Those questions may not make you the most popular person with Nextdoor.
But asking thoughtful, evidence-based questions is one way journalists and publishers build trust with their readers.
Trust isn't built by avoiding difficult conversations.
It's built by having them.
And whether it's Nextdoor or any other company, accountability begins with someone willing to ask the next question.
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Day 24: The Cost of Silence — Communication Is Leadership
The clock keeps ticking.
It has now been 24 days since I requested information about a study published by the Nextdoor Communications team, which listed Jacob Chavis as the contact person and included his email address.
No report.
No methodology.
No correspondence.
Not even a simple acknowledgment.
Which brings me back to the question:
What is the theory?
Nirav Tolia has discussed the importance of testing theories, learning, and understanding outcomes. So what is the theory behind not responding?
What is the goal?
What does silence accomplish that a simple one-line email could not?
Users, advertisers, and investors may want to ask a bigger question:
If this is the communication model for when someone asks for information about a published study, what happens in a true crisis?
It is easy to say:
“We would handle it differently because ______.”
Fill in the blank with any explanation.
But results are measured by what happens, not what someone says would happen.
Show me actions.
Show me consistency.
Show me accountability.
Relationships — personal and business — often break down when
expectations and reality no longer match.
In the meantime, something unexpected happened.
My following and engagement continue to grow, and ironically, I have Nextdoor to thank for part of that.
That wasn't the reason I raised questions. It is simply the result.
More people are asking questions about platforms, leadership, moderation, transparency, and accountability.
At some point, people become tired of accepting what they believe needs to change.
Nextdoor launched over 15 years ago. The question remains:
Are conversations, interviews, and future promises enough?
Or is it time to focus on measurable results?
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“Meet the new boss, same as the old boss.”
Those lyrics from The Who kept running through my head this morning.
With my family still going through a difficult time, I’ve been spending a lot of hours in a hospital room with my mom. That has given me time to read, research, and think.
One topic I revisited was Nextdoor’s decision to establish a new engineering hub in Dallas, Texas, while continuing to lease office space at The Stack in Deep Ellum.
That led me to ask: Where is the executive leadership team generally based?
Based on publicly available information, I found:
- Nirav Tolia, CEO – Dallas, Texas
- Sarah Leary, Head of Marketing, Community & Business Operations – Boston, Massachusetts
- Craig Lisowski, President of Product – San Francisco, California
- Indrajit Ponnambalam, Chief Financial Officer – Dallas, Texas
- Sophia Contreras Schwartz, Chief Legal Officer – San Francisco, California
- Michael Kiernan, Chief Revenue Officer – Brooklyn, New York
- Tony Castellanos, EVP, People – San Francisco, California
- Kelsey Grady, EVP, Communications – San Francisco, California
- Nick Lisher, EVP, Product – Tunbridge Wells, England
- Anita Patwardhan, EVP, Product Design – San Francisco, California
These are general locations based on public information, not personal addresses.
If the objective is to hire the best executive talent, the search went as far as England.
So if Nextdoor can recruit globally for its C-Suite, why require engineering talent to be concentrated in one office?
If the goal is to attract top engineers with competitive pay, benefits, bonuses, and equity, why require Dallas when many executives they collaborate with are in San Francisco, Boston, New York, or England?
And it’s 2026.
Cloud infrastructure is managed through providers like Amazon Web Services (AWS) and Microsoft Azure DevOps. Hardware monitoring and data center operations are largely handled by specialists and cloud providers, not executives walking the halls.
Is physical proximity improving collaboration, or just creating another layer of management?
Anonymous Blind discussions mention micromanagement, toxic culture, and even cult-like comparisons. Those are anonymous opinions, not verified facts, but they raise questions worth asking.
Throughout my career, I’ve learned that strong leaders hire talented people, coach them consistently, provide candid feedback, and trust them to do the job.
When performance falls short, you coach, mentor, and partner with HR when needed.
Micromanagement is alive and well in 2026.
Trust still scales better.
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